hes ready? If he doesnt, well only be a few months away from engagement season, and since I know a ring is not an insignificant purchase, I dont really want to spring an oh hey, Id like to be engaged in the next 60 days on him. Its like we hit the two-year mark and I magically stopped being a person and turned into a naked left ring finger and some ovaries all attached to a ticking time bomb. I read almost all of your posts and one of your books, and while I admit I initially had trouble with some of your advice, it did make a certain amount of success if I was honest with myself. Your boyfriend cant do much at all until hes no longer miserable. You just have to step into. Youll go on dates and you wont have to pretend or youll be in a relationship and wont have to lie. I think as a culture we accept that sex dies over time. What about that solo song of his? Feel the sexual tension rise. Write your own declaration. Is being a princess stopping you from having the relationship and the life you want, from being the woman you are meant to be? On the other hand, a queen doesnt just think that she deserves it; she knows. If youd asked me a month ago what Id be doing today, and where, I never would have pictured myself writing in Central Park, away from my comfort zone and most of the people I love. This is my first go at video blogging and I wanted to give it a try to push myself to do something new and also because my experience yesterday in Sunday church was alive and vibrant and I thought talking about it might. She describes him in detail. There is, of course, a but. Keeping a relationship hot takes communication and practice, just like keeping the finances clear or dividing chores. Because becoming a queen requires workthe kind thats uncomfortable and easy to avoid.